Saturday, June 28, 2008
I'm sealing June with a conscious realization.
I am always taking a stand...always sharp in delivering a clear opinion about Issues especially basic ones.
But, I am done arguing!
I mean really putting my heart and nerves into an argument and a3aly daghty oo at7eme2!
No more of those...I've quit this month and I'm treating this as important as quiting smoking.
Reason:
No one gives your words a second of thought...people treat an opinion as if their lives depend on it and the whole thing turn into a mud fight!
Either ways...I benchmark if i have a point...they don't have to admit it but i do.
I can give my blood pressure the simplest treatment ever!
Now a good post needs a good example and I'm not gonna give you one...no, i feel extra generous today...I'm gonna give TWO live recent excerpts of two illogical cut in half arguments:
One
a long time ex tried to hit on me...i declined nicely as i care for him...he insists...i have to shut all channels...weeks later i discover that he's engaged to be married while he tried to hit on me...i get mad at him for being such a jerk...he argues my logic...i quit!
Two
a friend of mine whom i confide in - and that's soooooooooo rare- goes on and blabbers a private conversation to a third party...i get mad at the friend but his argument was: i didn't say ....... that would've been so much serious than what i said....i argue the principle itself and he keeps repeating that it wasn't the more serious topic...i quit!
When people can't get simple basic rules like those two points...how can i keep arguing and get mad till i get a stroke from such stupidity...I have kids you know i gotta take care of myself.
Khalas...7aramt...no more arguing...I'll take the stand and shut the freakin' door.
and with that realization...i seal June with a kiss :)
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