I don't know about other Arab countries... I'm only gonna talk about The social system sucks...really...we have that weird idea about the sequence of living... Where...men are expected to be men after they finish college..!!!! And women are expected to be women after they get married!!!!! Families...most of them...think that education is a great difficult task and that the boy is still a boy even when he turn 21 or 22..up until he finishes his education...then he becomes a man project until he gets proper work then try to get married..So when that happens most men turn 28 and sometimes 30 something before they even start to be a man...and the result is…massive irresponsibility…childish acts…failing to excel in any career…besides that he is not used to working and having to make an effort so..He gets grumpy and he'd have a hard time coping with supervision... Sorry...but to me...I think that a man becomes a man way earlier than that...we must build a character...he might be a child yet you could fill him up with manhood...having chores and rewards for them build the sense of accomplishment…and encouraging young men to have there own dreams …and that is when excelling starts..Most successful men started their dream in an early age... Pursuing that dream would take hard work and interactions with people...learning social skills…and if we set our minds to rooting him with religion...then it'd be most likely that we are gonna have true men before he goes to college!! And only that character is allowed to get married early. And save him self from infatuations... As for girls…you would want to marry such a man... Only if you know the simple truth about your femeninaty...your needs your instinct... You are the basis of a great building... Women should be raised to cherish their role…to appreciate that Allah gave her rights...more than any human laws could give her...that her mind is a treasure. That she shouldn't let anyone or thing devalue her or patronize her... Our education is crutial...but educating a mind needs more work than ordinary education...needs of you to devotedly respect your self and your being... You must know how to treat your husband...cause rebel or not you want it and you want your babies...you must know how to feed them...how to run your home...how to be his friend and mom and wife… Too bad not all men are lucky enough to enjoy such marriages...sometimes they have stupid wives...and sometimes they are so stupid to appreciate!! Please let us all be men…true men…NOW!!
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