I read the book...although the whole idea is not tempting... She is an actress so what is it that she has to say in a book???!!!!! That would be the normal thought…but the fact is...she is every one...in a way... I related to the idea...the book is called" burnt toast "...and unless you're a mom you won't know what that means... It means…mothers…ordinary mothers who find themselves having the burnt toast and giving the great golden ones to their kids... That is almost every mom...when we choose...we choose what's best for our kids...i know...one would ask...why not throw the burned ones away and share the good?! I honestly don't know. But I think it's an extra act of love. As if we're declaring full loyalty and the will to sacrifice... Some times having the burnt toast is fulfilling...satisfying...we like to give and over do it. In the book she talked about another serious matter…Child molestation… She was abused as a child...it was her uncle and that left her scared forever...damaged her soul as she always thought that it was her fault!! That same uncle after decades did the same thing to another girl and that made her kill herself...Teri...couragously turned him in...She testified against him and he was put in prison for life I guess that's what abusers do...they make one feel guilty...even though they are the ones who're guilty...they make them believe it's o.k..then put all the guilt on them to keep them around for the lom And those abusers are very smart...they are usually relatives or close friends to the family…they are usually the least one anyone can think that of!! But they are monsters...beasts...waiting around some hidden dark corner to ruin someone's life and corrupt some innocent soul…They should be so burned in hell and life...they are ruled by daemons and they lost their humanity long ago…psychiatrists said that they are mostly abused themselves as children…well…THEN they should've known better!!! But regarding anyone who has had this unfortunate incident in his life…I say this… It is not your fault…you shouldn't feel guilty. As bad as it hurts. You shall find healing in Allah's hands…he can mend that broken soul and sooth that troubled heart... Allah would accept anyone. Who ever did anything…we may not think that we are worth it. But Allah is the generous. He has the mercy that should wrap u up in light... Reach for Allah and you'll be guided...ask Allah to take the pain away...to take the memory away...and help others realize that taboo... WE should educate our kids rather than living as if there is nothing wrong in this world. We should talk to them with an open mind. We should expand this narrow heart of ours so it can contain them. And the world within it... We should continuously ask Allah to guard them and keep them safe... We should try to fear Allah, More and more and more and more……
I finally found someone... Who can be my son's hero for this day and age... I finally found some one to look up to...to reinforce my sense of power...my sense of strength...my sense of freedom and true humanity in Islam... Hasan...i found you some one...and his name is hasan too... Look at the character that pins you in place when he talks...look at the intelligence glowing from his eyes...see how organized his thoughts are..how he puts amazing sentences together. See that will power. I want you to have that…cherish your dignity and never sell your religion...sacrefice your life to defend your right to be free... Be the leader that all people deprive now... Have the faith that gives you the power to stand against the wild wind solidly... He has mercy...don't mistake that...he said... we are the owners of love, passion, tenderness and compassion... He said. But we are tough and won't be beaten. We won't be betrayed to loose our own identity... Ahh ya hasan...i'm glad I finally found someone to make you feel honored you're an Arab...to never make you wish you were one of them nor be their slave.. I found you someone...a leader in the time when there are no leaders...a Muslim...who never found his ideas far from Islam...who never related liberty far from religious dedication...who never needed to go left or right for answers. Cause he had them from Allah... I'm happy for you my son…you're gonna have some one...Who can't be bought Who won't retreat nor surrender... I want you to be a man…THE MAN, like hasan nasr Allah.
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