The most interesting part was what Inso mentioned: each is scared by experience therefore he/she talks!

 

What is key in my opinion is that Human ( mental, emotional and all ) realization really starts to break the bubble and develops when we start to stop consuming our spirits in wallowing over previous scars...when we start to generalize and look deeper into life facts and just understand it.

 

Personal experience COUNTS of course...and creates a mind set that most likely is bound to throw its shadows over every incidents that relates to ones bad/good experience.

 

BUT, it would forever make us scared to move into a relative experience...it would forever make our view so narrow and limited and most importantly it would forever make us less understanding of the marvelous variety of human knowledge.

 

I believe it's disrespectful for a human to poke the eye of another human if he's different...i would only point finger at someone who i have the right to judge and that is whoever would intersect my life with his behaviour and directly harm me...otherwise i have no right to judge anyone simply because...no one has the right to judge me.

 

I will judge a cheating husband for scaring me because what he did is by all means wrong...but i won't judge a husband for marrying another woman because - in my beliefs- that's not wrong...my reaction would be leaving him if it hurts me cause Allah gave me that right.

if i flip the coin, i would leave a husband if i no longer see him as a spouse....he doesn't have the right to judge me cause that's my right but he has the right to if i cheated on him.

 

men and women are EQUAL when it comes to rights and obligations...i will see it that way and no other way.

 

Women think they are mistreated cause men  seem to have more rights like polygamy and stuff...well, wrong conception cause women have the right to walk away when ever she feels that she has to.

 

7ad 7ay2oly how hard it is for a woman to be divorced...I'll say, it's hard cause WE made it that way with our own hands over the years....when women settled for miserable marriages cause they let people scare them from the society's look at the divorcee...when we let fear paralyzes us...we help injustice rule and become the norm.

 

My experience is the bitterest ever...yet, i understand the nature of women, men and life...pick what suits me and shove what hurts me and i try not to let a concept  rest as a brick in my mind!

 

Allah ye3afy elgamee3.

have a good day.  

I'm sure that" fair and lovely" ad wasn't directed only to Arabs but I'm sure they wouldn't dare tell an European or American woman - with darker skin- that she'll be more successful in life and with a great career if she lightened her complexion...they would've been sued, harassed, demonstrated against and actually put in jail for such a racist action.

 

I think it's disgusting!

 

Now, I'm not saying anyone doesn't have the right to change whatever they want about the way they look...but relating success and value to skin COLOR??!!!

 

I think being a racist who'd judge based on natural skin color is better( judging between two piles of shit)  than being a stupid low life ass hole who'd judge based on such fake crap...not that I'd mind that both end up burning in hell!

 

Now ladies...be as fair as you want and as lovely as you desire but PLEAAAAAAAASE don't think that that would make you do better in school or succeed in life unless you're actually aiming to get an air head for a groom - which must've been best friends with that ad maker- who'd want to share the REST of his life with you ONLY cause you're fair.

 

And to that i would proudly say: That's not fair....to you!!